This blog entry might be a little off topic but I wanted to take this opportunity to recommend an excellent book that all married and soon-to-be married couples should read. It is called, "Grow Up" and it's written by Frank Pittman. Here is a link to the book on Amazon.
The introduction is worth the price of the book alone. It is Dr.Pittman gives you the keys to happiness. They are;
1. Forgive your parents
2. Join the team (you'll have to read the book to figure that out)
3. Find some work and some play to do
4. Get a partner to do it with and keep it equal
5. Raise children, wherever you find them
Besides that there are some excellent chapters on how to live as a happily married couple and what your expectations should be of yourself and your mate.
I know you are busy with wedding planning but I hope you will make some time to read this book.